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Relationships · Quiet Heron
He cancelled on me twice this week — am I overreacting?
We've been seeing each other about three months. He cancelled Tuesday an hour before, then again Friday, both times for work. He still texts every day and says he wants to see me. I don't want to be the person who makes a thing out of nothing, but I feel like I'm always the one rearranging my week. How would you bring this up without sounding clingy?
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Twice in one week is a pattern, not a fluke. Say the plain version: "I like seeing you, and last-minute cancellations throw my week off — can we pick days we both actually protect?" His answer tells you everything.
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